Self-Love Spell

We could all use a little more self-love, right? Even if you’re in a happy relationship, you may not have the best relationship with yourself! Let’s work on that.

I’m going to detail the steps of the spell below, but feel free to tweak it and make it work for you. Magic is all about intuition and following your own path.

I feel like I’m in a pretty good place, but there’s still some nagging self-doubt. I have a tendency to undervalue myself and my abilities. I think a self-love spell is exactly what I need right now!

Spell for Self-Love: Love and High Vibrations

What you’ll need:

  • White candle
  • Lavender
  • Witch Hazel
  • Allspice
  • Clear quartz
  • Rose quartz
  • Small bag (preferably pink)
  • Divine feminine/masculine figure (optional)
  • Mortar and pestle (optional)

First, light your candle. Calm yourself and think about loving yourself the way you would want someone else to love you, unconditionally. Now, let’s gather up the herbs! If you only have 1 or 2 of them, that’s totally fine. Smash them up in your mortal and pestle if you have one, until they just feel right.

If you have a figure, keep it in your sight as often as you can. Concentrate on the curves of it and put all your love into it.

Divine Femme figure

Pour your herbs into your chalice (or whatever container you have!) along with your crystals. Swirl them around, let the scent fill your nostrils as you think about how good it will feel to finally just let yourself be.

As the candle burns, I like to swish around a white feather, over the candle and over the chalice. Just do whatever feels right. I also like to let a bit of the wax drip into the chalice, mixing with the herbs and stones.

Feather on my altar

As this point, how do you feel? If you’re not quite there yet, keep going. Forgive yourself. Think about what makes you lovable. If you’re feeling great, go ahead and snuff the candle. Or you can let it finish, totally up to you! I always like to ring a bell at the end, to signify that the spell is complete.

Pour from your chalice into your bag all of your ingredients. Once it’s cool, add the remaining candle wax as well. Keep this bag somewhere close to you, I recommend your nightstand. It will help to fill your dreams/subconscious with love and contentment.

Happy spell casting!

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